Betrayal Spikes on Valentine's Day

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Betrayal Spikes on Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day- the most romantic day of the year- but not if it’s between your partner and someone else.

Los Angeles, California, USA   February 2, 2007 -- Flowers. Lingerie. Jewelry. Chocolates. Plus, a special night on the town. Most people consider Valentine’s Day to be the most romantic day of the year—but not if that romance is between your partner and their lover.

Infidelity doesn't take a back seat on Valentine's Day. In fact, it's the one day of the year when infidelity and extramarital affairs reach their peak,” reports Infidelity expert Ruth Houston, founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and author of ‘Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs’. “This is a side of Valentine's Day that no one talks about," explains Houston, "even though it's an issue that affects millions of Americans everyday. Based on current statistics, an estimated 50% to 70% of Americans are victims of infidelity. When you factor in emotional infidelity, cyber-infidelity, same-sex infidelity and the ever increasing number of men who are victims of female infidelity, that percentage could jump to nearly 85%. Unfortunately, many of these infidelity victims have no idea their partner is having an affair."

Tip Sheet for Unwitting Victims

To aid unwitting victims, Houston offers a tip sheet available at www.findanexpertonline.com. Titled ‘10 Things You Probably Don’t Know About Signs of Infidelity’, Houston’s tip sheet surprises a number of people, even those who think they know about extramarital affairs. Houston feels that unsuspecting infidelity victims who have been unable to get proof thus far, deserve to know about this aspect of Valentine's Day. They can use it to their advantage.

Of the reported $13 billion Americans spend on Valentine’s Day, a significant portion of that money is spent by cheaters buying gifts for their secret lovers. “These gifts could prove to be their undoing since many will be delivered in person, and these purchases usually leave a paper trail,” reveals Huston.

Balanced Coverage of Valentine's Day

Houston laments, “I hope that this year, for the sake of balanced coverage, more media outlets will do a Valentine's Day Infidelity Awareness series -- or at least cover the new campaign on Valentine's Day and workplace affairs.”

"I started this Valentine's Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign four years ago because during the course of my ongoing infidelity research, I discovered that very little had been written about the link between Valentine's Day and infidelity. I found that surprising since infidelity affects millions of Americans," Houston said.

Houston, a journalist with a background in public relations, approached the media 4 years ago with this unique idea: "Instead of the usual Valentine's Day stories about gifts to buy and romantic things to do, why not write about the side of Valentine's Day that no one talks about." Many of them rose to the challenge.

A Theme for Each Year's Awareness Campaign

Each year Houston chooses a different theme for the campaign. "Since the workplace now ties with the internet as the #1 place where cheaters find partners for extramarital affairs," says Houston, "this year's theme is 'Valentine's Day Signs of a Workplace Affair’.”

The theme for the first year was ‘Is Your Valentine the Cheating Kind?’ Houston designed a seven-question quiz so women could rate their mate by his background, history, and character traits to determine if they were married to or dating a potential cheater.

The second year's theme was ‘How Valentine's Day Gifts Can Expose a Cheating Husband’. Houston discussed how cheating husbands can be exposed by the Valentine's Day gifts they give.

Last year's theme, which generated the most extensive coverage thus far, was ‘Valentine's Day is the Best Time to Catch a Cheating Mate’. Houston revealed how and where to find tangible proof of an affair on the most romantic day of the year.

The tip sheet at www.findanexpertonline.com may help you get to the bottom of Valentine’s Day infidelity.

About the Author:

Infidelity expert, Ruth Houston is the author of " Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs" a comprehensive guide which documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs most people usually overlook. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, Newsday, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Houston Chronicle, the Toronto Sun, Sante, Visao, iVillage, MSN Lifestyle and numerous other print and online media. Ruth has been a guest on The Today Show, Good Day New York, 1010WINS, TalkAmerica, Telemundo, BBC, CBC and over 150 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, the Caribbean, New Zealand, and South America. To get a FREE tip sheet describing the 21 major categories of infidelity signs, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "21 categories-TS" in the subject line. For more information about Ruth Houston, her book, or signs of infidelity, visit http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com

About the Book:

Recently featured on The Today Show, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs contains practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Based on 11 years of in-depth research and over 2000 interviews, this book was described by one talk show host as "a cheating man's worst nightmare." Most of the cheating signs in Is He Cheating on You? apply to both cheating husbands and cheating wives.

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